Love is one of the most profound emotions known to human beings. There are many kinds of love, but most people seek its expression in a romantic relationship with a compatible partner.
However, with today’s way of dating, it might come across as a little confusing…perhaps a little frustrating, and unclear. It’s ironic that with all the texting, Facebooking, Instagramming and all the other ways to send messages back and forth these days, never has communication felt more…non-communicative. No one’s dating anymore, they’re “hanging out.” And in the midst of all this super casual “hanging out,” signals and wires and intentions seem to have gotten crossed. Instead of the men pursuing the women, a lot of men seem to be sitting back waiting on the women to pursue THEM.
A friend of mine stated “In the Animal Kingdom it’s the Female that does the hunting and it’s the Female that is feared…so why not accept this concept in the human world? Go for what you want”…he said.
However, men are generally accustomed to being the one to make the first move and they have been taught in our culture to do so. It gives them a sense of accomplishment to successfully “nab” a woman that they really like. So, although there isn’t anything wrong with women making the first move, should women give the guy a chance first? Or should women go after what they want? And for how long does either men or women continue to chase? One can only be caught if one wants to be caught by you.
At the end of the day both men and women are too busy to be “chasing” if you like what you see TELL that person.
I hope wherever you are in your journey today, you’ll realize that you are worth being pursued and there is nothing wrong with pursuing what you want! You deserve someone who is willing to do whatever it takes to capture your heart.
Let me know your thoughts below. I am interested to know how men and women, in general, feel about
chasing romance & one another.